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parklife video one

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1. unmixed I untainted 2. simple 3. spotless 4. faultless 5. innocent

so you’re thinking about . . . sex

where do you get your relationships and iiisex advice from ? 5 who do you talk to about sex and relationships ?

friends ? films ? family ? parents guardians brothers sisters television ? magazines ?

films mags music ads ads soaps music films media soaps mags tv films tv music

G od ?

be careful what you think because your thoughts run your life

I want women to be modest in their appearance. They should wear decent and appropriate clothing and not draw attention to themselves by the way they dress. For women who claim to be devoted to God should make themselves attractive by the good things they do 1 Timothy 2 v 9 - 10

don’t copy the behaviour and customs of this world but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will know what God wants you to do and you will know how good and pleasing and perfect his will really is Romans 12 v 2

parklife video two

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what makes a good boy I girl relationship ?

scenarios what advice would you give ? what would you do ? how would you react ?

break ask a question confidential we’ll answer it later on

scenarios what advice would you give ? what would you do ? how would you react ?

parklife video three

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sex is good sex is special

sex = love ? if you love someone is it ok to have sex with them?

prove you love someone by not having sex with them

your body is a sacred place a place of the Holy Spirit

being intimate was designed for sex was designed for marriage

NIKE Just do it !

honour marriage and guard the sacredness of intimacy between husband wife. God draws the firm line against casual and illicit sex Hebrews 13 v 4

for this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife and the two will become one flesh, so they are no longer two but one Matt 19 v 6

pregnancy pregnancy

pregnancy happens very easily

true or false pregnancy can happen. . . true the first time you have sex any time of the month without full intercourse using contraception having sex in the bath standing up during sex

sti‘s sexually transmitted infections

chlamydia Bacterial infection – can be treated easily Most people don’t know they have it Can prevent you having kids in the future Spread by fluids 1 in 10 sexually active teenagers has an sexually transmitted infection

hpv human papilloma virus Most common in N. Ireland Viral infection ( lifelong ) Causes genital warts Can cause cancer Spread by skin to skin contact 1 in 10 sexually active teenagers has an sexually transmitted infection

hiv I aids Cases rising in N. Ireland Viral infection – No cure Spread in 90% of cases by male/female sex Spain has highest cases in Europe Aids kills 1 in 10 sexually active teenagers has an sexually transmitted infection

syphilis Can be fatal Number of cases rising Can be treated Fatal if passed to a baby 1 in 10 sexually active teenagers has an sexually transmitted infection

genital herpes Can be very painful Can be passed by skin to skin contact Can have this lifelong 1 in 10 sexually active teenagers has an sexually transmitted infection

gonorrhoea Number of cases rising Can prevent someone having children Can be treated Can be passed to a baby 1 in 10 sexually active teenagers has an sexually transmitted infection

will condoms prevent someone getting pregnant or catching an sti ?

pregnancy sti’s theoretical failure rate is 3% reduce the risk, do not remove the risk user failure rate is 14% condoms slip, rip, burst, come off reduce the risk, do not remove the risk some sti’s spread by skin to skin contact

Other methods tio p is n ce ra e nt iv co ct f o fe d ef o % th 0 e m 10 no Contraceptive Pill Coils Diaphragms Injections Natural Methods Female condom (Femidom) Morning After Pill

emotional hurt emotional hurt

and the two will become one

when you sleep with someone your body makes a promise

sex is it worth waiting for ?

Is it worth having the freedom to explore other relationships/friendships ? Is it worth being free from having an STI or a crisis pregnancy ? Is it worth being free from regret/hurt or guilt ? Is it worth being free to grow in Christ ?

God has given us this gift How do we value it ?

what are you worth ?

listen to this. . . Psalm 139

live out your God created identity Matt 5: 48

your choice your consequences

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