Proactive vs Reactive Thinking.pptx
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An American consultant was at the pier of a small coastal Mexican village when a small boat with just one fisherman docked. Inside the small boat were several large Yellowfin Tuna. The American complimented the Mexican on the quality of his fish and asked how long it took to catch them…
The Mexican replied, “Only a little while. ” The American then asked, “Why don’t you stay out longer and catch more fish? The Mexican said, “Well, I catch enough to feed my family. ”…
Instead of selling your catch to a middleman you would sell directly to the processor, eventually opening your own cannery. You would control the product, processing and distribution. You would need to leave this small coastal fishing village and move to Mexico City, then LA and eventually NYC where you will run your expanding enterprise. ”…
The American scoffed, “I am a Harvard graduate and could help you with a new Business Plan. You should spend more time fishing and with the proceeds, buy a bigger boat with the proceeds from the bigger boat you could buy several boats eventually you would have a fleet of fishing boats.
The Mexican fisherman asked, “But senor, how long will this all take? ” To which the American replied, “ 15 -20 years to realize the business plan. ” “But what then, senor? ”…
The American laughed and said, “That’s the best part. When the time is right you would announce an IPO and sell your company stock to the public and become very rich, you would make millions. ” “Millions, senor? Then what? ”…
The American said, “Then you would retire. Move to a small coastal fishing village where you would sleep late, fish a little, play with your kids, take siesta with your wife, stroll to the village in the evenings where you could sip wine and play your guitar with your amigos. ”…
Larry is on his deathbed and his son comes to visit him for the last time. Daddy, what can I do for you?
Sam, what’s your Mama doing?
She’s in the kitchen making a big pot of gumbo!”
Larry managed to say, Go get me a bowl of gumbo, son.
The daughter leaves and comes back… Mama says the gumbo is for after the funeral.
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Dream a Little Dream
Stars shining bright above you Night breezes seem to whisper "I love you" Birds singing in the sycamore trees Dream a little dream of me
Say night and kiss me Just hold me tight and tell me you’ll miss me While I'm alone and blue as can be Dream a little dream of me
Stars fading but I linger on dear Still craving your kiss I'm longing to linger till dawn dear Just saying this
Sweet dreams till sunbeams find you Sweet dreams that leave all worries behind you But in your dreams whatever they be Dream a little dream of me
Stars fading but I linger on dear Still craving your kiss I'm longing to linger till dawn dear Just saying this
Sweet dreams till sunbeams find you Sweet dreams that leave all worries behind you But in your dreams whatever they be Dream a little dream of me
Stars fading but I linger on dear Still craving your kiss I'm longing to linger till dawn dear Just saying this
Ba pa bada pa baba…
Dream a Little Dream
activity! ACTIVITY
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“If you’re proactive, you don’t have to wait for circumstances or other people to create perspective expanding experiences. You can consciously create your own. ” —Stephen Covey Proactivity is, according to Stephen Covey, one of the most important characteristics of successful and personally effective people.
“If you’re proactive, you don’t have to wait for circumstances or other people to create perspective expanding experiences. You can consciously create your own. ”—Stephen Covey Proactivity is, according to Stephen Covey, one of the most important characteristics of successful and personally effective people. create создавать proactive проактивный expanding увеличивающийся, расширяющийся
Proactivity is the act of taking charge of your life, being responsible for it, and taking action to master your life. Choice is a principle that underlies proactivity, as we ultimately have the choice to how we respond to what happens to us in our lives and it is our reactions that determine how things affect us.
Proactivity is the act of taking charge of your life, being responsible for it, and taking action to master your life. Choice is a principle that underlies proactivity, as we ultimately have the choice to how we respond to what happens to us in our lives and it is our reactions that determine how things affect us. choice выбор underlie лежать в основе determine определять
People who lack the proactivity habit tend to be more reactive, seeing themselves as victims of circumstance, unable to change their reactions, thus feeling much less empowered. People who play the game of “tit for tat” in an argument are being reactive.
People who lack the proactivity habit tend to be more reactive, seeing themselves as victims of circumstance, unable to change their reactions, thus feeling much less empowered. People who play the game of “tit for tat” in an argument are being reactive. victim жертва reactive реактивный empowered уполномоченный
They are reacting to what the other person is saying rather than being grounded and more rational where they take responsibility for their emotional triggers. The mentality that “he makes me so mad” or “she made me feel bad about myself” are examples of the victim language.
They are reacting to what the other person is saying rather than being grounded and more rational where they take responsibility for their emotional triggers. The mentality that “he makes me so mad” or “she made me feel bad about myself” are examples of the victim language. mad злой, раздраженный responsibility ответственность trigger травматический стимул
Underlying the Habit of Proactivity: • The ability to set goals and work towards achieving them. • Creating opportunities, not waiting for them to come your way • Understanding the choice you have in engineering your life • Applying your own personal principles and core values in making decisions • Having imagination creativity and to explore possible alternatives • Realizing you have independent will to choose your own unique response
Underlying the Habit of Proactivity: • The ability to set goals and work towards achieving them. • Creating opportunities, not waiting for them to come your way • Understanding the choice you have in engineering your life • Applying your own personal principles and core values in making decisions • Having imagination creativity and to explore possible alternatives • Realizing you have independent will to choose your own unique response ответ ability способность engineering проектирование
Differentiate between the “have’s” and the “be’s. ” The latter focuses on your character and how you can take charge of your life. Instead of focusing on the thought “If I had a better job, ” a proactive person would focus on thoughts like “I can be more resourceful to find another job or make the best of this one. ”
Differentiate between the “have’s” and the “be’s. ” The latter focuses on your character and how you can take charge of your life. Instead of focusing on the thought “If I had a better job, ” a proactive person would focus on thoughts like “I can be more resourceful to find another job or make the best of this one. ” job работа differentiate различать resourceful изобретательный
Proactive Takeaways: Remember the importance of being proactive and not reactive! If you feel like a rudderless boat which is in chaotic motion without you taking charge at the helm, remind yourself that you can take the helm and can be the captain of your ship.
Proactive Takeaways: Remember the importance of being proactive and not reactive! If you feel like a rudderless boat which is in chaotic motion without you taking charge at the helm, remind yourself that you can take the helm and can be the captain of your ship. motion движение helm штурвал rudderless бесконтрольный
Write a specific action plan, whether it be a checklist, schedule, or chart in which you reward yourself for sticking to your goals. Replace “Have” thoughts with “Be” thoughts – For example: The thought “If I had a better boss” can be changed to “I can “be” a more effective employee.
Write a specific action plan, whether it be a checklist, schedule, or chart in which you reward yourself for sticking to your goals. Replace “Have” thoughts with “Be” thoughts – For example: The thought “If I had a better boss” can be changed to “I can “be” a more effective employee. reward вознаградить employee сотрудник specific определенный, конкретный
Enlist support. Do not hesitate to seek support from others in sticking to your plans. Just because you are the captain of your life does not mean that you need to go it alone. It’s always nice to have crew! Plan ways to manage your time and do not spread yourself too thin! Do not let your time divide you – you can divide your time.
Enlist support. Do not hesitate to seek support from others in sticking to your plans. Just because you are the captain of your life does not mean that you need to go it alone. It’s always nice to have crew! Plan ways to manage your time and do not spread yourself too thin! Do not let your time divide you – you can divide your time. hesitate сомневаться divide разделять enlist вовлекать
So, if you find yourself having a hard time taking your power back from others, how about spending some quiet time and writing down at least three “have” phrases and transform them into “be” phrases? As you become stronger about your own sense of empowerment, you will find yourself growing by leaps and bounds.
So, if you find yourself having a hard time taking your power back from others, how about spending some quiet time and writing down at least three “have” phrases and transform them into “be” phrases? As you become stronger about your own sense of empowerment, you will find yourself growing by leaps and bounds. become становиться transform превращать empowerment потенциал, возможности
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You are my sunshine, my only sunshine you make me happy when skies are gray you'll never know dear, how much I love you, please don't take my sunshine away.
The other night dear, as I lay sleeping, I dreamed I held you in my arms, but when I woke dear, I was mistaken, and I hung my head and cried.
You are my sunshine, my only sunshine you make me happy when skies are gray you'll never know dear, how much I love you, please don't take my sunshine away.
You told me once dear you really loved me that no one else could come between but now you've left me and love another you have shattered all my dreams.
You are my sunshine, my only sunshine you make me happy, when skies are gray, you'll never know dear, how much I love you, please don't take my sunshine away. Please don’t take my sunshine away.
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