ﺍﻟﺴﻜﻨﻰ ﻓﻲ ﺯﺍﻭﻳﺔ ﺍﻟﺴﻄﺢ ﺧﻴﺮ ﻣﻦ ﺍﻣﺮﺍﺓ

ﺍﻟﺴﻜﻨﻰ ﻓﻲ ﺯﺍﻭﻳﺔ ﺍﻟﺴﻄﺢ ﺧﻴﺮ ﻣﻦ ﺍﻣﺮﺍﺓ ﻣﺨﺎﺻﻤﺔ (9 : 21 ﻭﺑﻴﺖ ﻣﺸﺘﺮﻙ )ﺍﻡ Better to dwell in a corner of a housetop, Than in a house shared with a contentious woman (Pro 21 : 9)

ﺍﻟﻨﻜـــــــﺪ Grumpiness (Bad Mood/Temper) Nakkad Syndrome

ﻷ ﻋﻠﻰ ﻃﻮﻝ ﺻﻮﺭ ﺍﻟﻨﻜﺪ Things that causes grumpiness No …. Noooooo ……. . all the way

Expression less ﻭﺟﻪ ﺍﻟﻨﻜﺪ

You are …. always wrong ﺍﻟﻨﻘﺪ. . . ﻋﻠﻰ ﻃﻮﻝ

ﺍﻟﻨﻮﻡ. . . ﻋﻠﻰ ﻃﻮﻝ Always …. . asleep

Always …. complaining ﺷﻜﺎﻭﻱ. . . ﻋﻠﻰ ﻃﻮﻝ

Mobile-Nakkad syndrome ﻧﻜﺪ ﺍﻟﻤﻮﺑﺎﻳﻞ

ﻧﻜﺪ ﺍﻟﺸﺮﺍﺀ Shopping-Nakkad

ﺍﻷﻬﻞ - ﺍﻟﻤﺠﺎﻣﻼﺕ Family commitments …. compliments

ﺍﻷﺼﺤﺎﺏ - ﺍﻟﻌﺰﻭﻣﺎﺕ Friends …. Parties & gatherings

ﺍﻟﺴﻔﺮ - ﺍﻟﻔﺴﺤﺔ Travelling & Entertainments

ﺍﻟﻴﻮﻧﺎﻧﻴﻴﻦ ﻋﻨﺪﻫﻢ ﺃﺮﺑﻊ ﻛﻠﻤﺎﺕ ﺗﻤﻴﺰ ﺃﻨﻮﺍﻉ ﻣﺨﺘﻠﻔﺔ ﻣﻦ ﺍﻟﺤﺐ The Greeks had four words to differentiate various types of love (1) Storge: which means natural affection ﺍﻟﻤﻮﺩﺓ ﺍﻟﻄﺒﻴﻌﻴﺔ (2) Eros: which means sexual attraction ﺍﻟﺠﺎﺫﺑﻴﺔ ﺍﻟﺠﻨﺴﻴﺔ (3) Philia: which means emotional affection or friendship ﺍﻟﻤﻮﺩﺓ ﺃﻮ ﺍﻟﺼﺪﺍﻗﺔ ﺍﻟﻌﺎﻃﻔﻴﺔ (4) Agape: which means unconditional, giving, sacrificial love ﺍﻟﻌﻄﺎﺀ ﻏﻴﺮ ﺍﻟﻤﺸﺮﻭﻁ ﻭﺍﻟﺤﺐ ﺍﻟﺒﺎﺫﻝ

As long as you. . ﻃﻮﻝ ﻣﺎ ﺍﻧﺖ In case of ﻓﻰ ﺣﺎﻟﻪ ﺍﻧﻚ Because . . ﺑﺎﺣﺒﻚ I love you. . ﻋﻠﺸﺎﻥ. . ﻻﻥ ﺃﻨﺎ ﻣﺶ ﻗﺎﺩﺭ ﺍﺣﺒﻚ ﺗﺎﻧﻰ I can’t love you any more I love you less when you…. . !!!! !!. . ﺃﻨﺎ ﻣﺶ ﺑﺤﺒﻚ ﺃﻮﻱ ﻟﻤﺎ

As long as I. . ﻃﻮﻝ ﻣﺎ ﺍﻧﺎ Although ﺑﺎﻟﺮﻏﻢ ﻣﻦ Because ﻋﻠﺸﺎﻥ. . ﻻﻥ I can’t stop loving you . . ﺑﺎﺣﺒﻚ I love you. . ﺃﻨﺎ ﻣﺶ ﻗﺎﺩﺭ ﺍﺑﻄﻞ ﺍﺣﺒﻚ I will love you forever, & I love you more when you…. . !!!! ﺃﻨﺎ ﻫﺎﻓﻀﻞ ﺃﺤﺒﻚ ﻟﻸﺒﺪ، ﻭﺑﺎﺣﺒﻚ !!!!. . ﺃﻜﺘﺮ ﻟﻤﺎ

(7 : 2 ﻣﻦ ﻳﻘﺪﺭ ﺍﻥ ﻳﻐﻔﺮ ﺧﻄﺎﻳﺎ ﺍﻻ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﻭﺣﺪﻩ )ﻣﺮ Who can forgive sins but God alone? “ (Mark 2 : 7) (13 : 4 ﺍﺳﺘﻄﻴﻊ ﻛﻞ ﺷﻴﺀ ﻓﻲ ﺍﻟﻤﺴﻴﺢ ﺍﻟﺬﻱ ﻳﻘﻮﻳﻨﻲ )ﻓﻲ I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. (Phil 4 : 13)

ﻭﺍﻣﺎ ﺍﻧﺎ ﻓﺒﻜﻞ ﺳﺮﻭﺭ ﺍﻧﻔﻖ ﻭﺍﻧﻔﻖ ﻻﺟﻞ ﺍﻧﻔﺴﻜﻢ ﻭﺍﻥ ﻛﻨﺖ ﻛﻠﻤﺎ ﺍﺣﺒﻜﻢ ﺍﻛﺜﺮ (16 - 15 : 12 ﺍﺣﺐ ﺍﻗﻞ. ﻓﻠﻴﻜﻦ )2ﻛﻮ And I will very gladly spend and be spent for your souls; though the more abundantly I love you, the less I am loved. But be that [as it may, ] (2 Cor 12 : 15 - 16) ﻭ ﺍﻟﺮﺟﺎﺀ ﻻ ﻳﺨﺰﻱ ﻻﻥ ﻣﺤﺒﺔ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﻗﺪ ﺍﻧﺴﻜﺒﺖ ﻓﻲ ﻗﻠﻮﺑﻨﺎ ﺑﺎﻟﺮﻭﺡ ﺍﻟﻘﺪﺱ ﺍﻟﻤﻌﻄﻰ (5 : 5 ﻟﻨﺎ )ﺭﻭ Now hope does not disappoint, because the love of God has been poured out in our hearts by the Holy Spirit who was given to us. (Rom 5 : 5)

(5 : 15 ﺑﺪﻭﻧﻲ ﻻ ﺗﻘﺪﺭﻭﻥ ﺍﻥ ﺗﻔﻌﻠﻮﺍ ﺷﻴﺌﺎ )ﻳﻮ without Me you can do nothing. (John 15 : 5) (9 : 15 ﻛﻤﺎ ﺍﺣﺒﻨﻲ ﺍﻻﺏ ﻛﺬﻟﻚ ﺍﺣﺒﺒﺘﻜﻢ ﺍﻧﺎ ﺍﺛﺒﺘﻮﺍ ﻓﻲ ﻣﺤﺒﺘﻲ )ﻳﻮ " As the Father loved Me, I also have loved you; abide in My love. (John 15 : 9)

ﻣﺶ ﺑﺤﺒﻬﺎ ﻻﻧﻬﺎ ﻣﺶ ﺑﺘﺤﺘﺮﻣﻨﻰ I don’t love her because she doesn’t respect me ﻣﺶ ﺑﺤﺘﺮﻣﻪ ﻻﻧﻪ ﻣﺶ ﺣﻨﻴﻦ I don’t respect him because he is not tender ﻋﺪﻡ ﺍﻟﺜﻘﻪ ﺑﺎﻟﻨﻔﺲ No Self confidence ﺍﻟﺨﻮﻑ Fear ( ﻋﺪﻡ ﺍﻟﻌﻄﺎﺀ. . ) ﺍﻟﺒﺨﻞ Ungenerous …. (miser) ﻣﻦ ﻳﺄﺨﺬ. . ؟؟؟ ﺍﻧﺎ ﺍﻻﻭﻝ Who takes first? Me ﺍﻟﻘﻠﻖ Worry ﻋﺪﻡ ﺍﻻﻣﺎﻥ Insecure ( ﺍﻟﺨﻴﺎﻧﻪ. . . ) ﻣﻦ ﻳﺤﺐ ﺃﻜﺜﺮ Betrayal … (who loves more) ﻣﻦ ﻳﺒﺎﺩﺭ. . ؟؟؟ ﺍﻧﺖ ﺍﻻﻭﻝ Who starts first? You

ﻛﻴﻒ ﻧﻐﻠﺐ ﺍﻟﻨﻜﺪ؟؟؟ How can we beat Grumpiness? ? ? ﺍﻟﻄﻤﻮﺡ ﺍﻷﻮﻝ ﻓﻰ ﺍﻟﺤﻴﺎﺓ The number one ambition in life People say ﺍﻟﻨﺎﺱ ﺑﺘﻘﻮﻝ ﺃﻨﺎ ﻋﺎﻭﺯ ﺃﻜﻮﻥ ﺳﻌﻴﺪ I just want to be happy I must act happy. I must talk happy. I must smell happy. I certainly must look happy. And if I am not happy, I must fake it. Always having to appear happy creates stress. ﺗﻤﺜﻴﻠﻴﺔ ﺍﻟﻔﺮﺡ ﻣﺮﻫﻘﺔ . ﻭﻣﺰﻋﺠﺔ ، ﻭﺗﻔﺸﻞ ﺳﺮﻳﻌ

. . . ﺇﻧﻪ ﻟﻴﻮﻡ ﺳﻴﻯﺀ ﺇﺫﺍ It is a bad day when…… ، ﻟﻮ ﺑﺘﻜﻮﻥ ﻓﺮﺣﺎﻥ ﻟﻤﺎ ﻛﻞ ﺣﺎﺟﺔ ﺗﻤﺸﻲ ﺯﻱ ﻣﺎ ﺍﻧﺖ ﻋﺎﻭﺯ ﻳﺒﻘﻰ ﻫﺘﺒﻘﻰ ﺣﺰﻳﻦ ﻣﻌﻈﻢ ﺍﻟﻮﻗﺖ If you are happy only when everything is going your way, you are going to be unhappy for much of your life. ! ﻛﻴﻒ ﺗﻈﻞ ﺇﻳﺠﺎﺑﻲ ﻓﻰ ﻋﺎﻟﻢ ﺳﻠﺒﻲ؟؟؟؟؟ How can we stay positive in a negative world? ﻛﻴﻒ ﺗﻈﻞ ﻣﺘﻔﺎﺋﻞ ﻭﻛﻞ ﺣﺎﺟﺔ ﺑﺘﻔﺸﻞ؟ How can we remain optimistic when everything is falling apart?

(22 : 5 ﻭ ﺍﻣﺎ ﺛﻤﺮ ﺍﻟﺮﻭﺡ ﻓﻬﻮ. . ﻓﺮﺡ ) ﻏﻞ But the fruit of the Spirit is. . joy (Gala. 5: 22) (4 : 4 ﺍﻓﺮﺣﻮﺍ ﻓﻲ ﺍﻟﺮﺏ ﻛﻞ ﺣﻴﻦ ﻭﺍﻗﻮﻝ ﺍﻳﻀﺎ ﺍﻓﺮﺣﻮﺍ. ) ﻓﻲ Rejoice in the Lord always. Again I will say, rejoice!. (Phi. 4: 4) ﺍﻟﺴﻌﺎﺩﺓ ﺗﻌﺘﻤﺪ ﻋﻠﻰ ﺍﻷﺤﺪﺍﺙ. ﻟﻜﻦ ﺍﻟﻔﺮﺡ ﻣﻮﻗﻒ، ﺍﺧﺘﻴﺎﺭ، ﻋﻤﻞ ﺩﺍﺧﻠﻲ Happiness depends on happenings. But joy is an attitude, a choice. Joy ia an inside job.

ﺃﺮﺑﻌﺔ ﺗﺪﺍﺭﻳﺐ ﺗﺴﺎﻋﺪﻙ ﻓﻲ ﺗﻨﻤﻴﺔ ﺍﻟﻔﺮﺡ ﺍﻟﺪﺍﺧﻠﻲ Four exercises that would help you develop an inner joy ﻗﻢ ﺑﻌﻤﻞ ﻫﺬﻩ ﺍﻟﺘﺪﺍﺭﻳﺐ ﻟﻤﺪﺓ ﺍﻟﺴﺘﺔ ﺃﺴﺎﺑﻴﻊ ﺍﻟﻘﺎﺩﻣﺔ Follow these excises for 6 weeks 1 ﺍﻟﺸﻜﺮ ﺍﻟﺪﺍﺋﻢ 1 - Develop the attitude of gratitude 2 ﺍﻟﻌﻄﺎﺀ 2 - Cultivate inner joy by giving 3 ﺍﻟﺨﺪﻣﺔ 3 - Develop inner joy through service 4 ﺩﻋﻮﺓ ﺍﻵﺨﺮﻳﻦ ﻟﻠﻤﺴﻴﺢ 4 - Sharing Christ with others.

1 - Develop the attitude of gratitude. -1 ﺍﻟﺸﻜﺮ ﺍﻟﺪﺍﺋﻢ ﺍﺷﻜﺮﻭﺍ ﻓﻲ ﻛﻞ ﺷﻴﺀ ﻻﻥ ﻫﺬﻩ ﻫﻲ ﻣﺸﻴﺌﺔ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﻓﻲ ﺍﻟﻤﺴﻴﺢ ﻳﺴﻮﻉ ﻣﻦ (18 : 5 ﺟﻬﺘﻜﻢ. )1ﺗﺲ in everything give thanks; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you. ( 1 Thess. 5: 18). ﻋﻠﻤﺎﺀ ﺍﻟﻨﻔﺲ ﻳﻘﻮﻟﻮﻥ ﺃﻦ ﺍﻟﺸﻜﺮ ﻫﻮ ﺍﻟﻌﺎﻃﻔﺔ ﺍﻷﻜﺜﺮ ﺻﺤﺔ Psychologists say that gratitude is the healthiest emotion. . . ﺍﺑﺤﺚ ﻋﻦ ﻃﺮﻕ ﻣﺨﺘﻠﻔﺔ ﻟﻠﺘﻌﺒﻴﺮ ﻋﻦ ﺍﻟﺸﻜﺮ ﻟﻠﻪ ، ﻟﻶﺨﺮﻳﻦ Search for various ways to express your gratitude to God, people. . . my heart greatly rejoices, And with. ﻳﺒﺘﻬﺞ ﻗﻠﺒﻲ ﻭ ﺑﺎﻏﻨﻴﺘﻲ ﺍﺣﻤﺪﻩ my song I will praise Him (Ps. 28: 7) (7 : 28 )ﻣﺰ

2 ﺍﻟﻌﻄﺎﺀ 2 - Cultivate inner joy by giving (35 : 20 ﻣﻐﺒﻮﻁ ﻫﻮ ﺍﻟﻌﻄﺎﺀ ﺍﻛﺜﺮ ﻣﻦ ﺍﻻﺧﺬ. )ﺃﻊ 'It is more blessed to give than to receive' “. (Acts 20: 35) God loves a cheerful : 9 ﺍﻟﻤﻌﻄﻲ ﺍﻟﻤﺴﺮﻭﺭ ﻳﺤﺒﻪ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ. )2ﻛﻮ giver. (2 Cor. 9: 7) (7 ﻫﺎﺗﻮﺍ ﺟﻤﻴﻊ ﺍﻟﻌﺸﻮﺭ ﺍﻟﻰ ﺍﻟﺨﺰﻧﺔ ﻟﻴﻜﻮﻥ ﻓﻲ ﺑﻴﺘﻲ ﻃﻌﺎﻡ ﻭ ﺟﺮﺑﻮﻧﻲ ﺑﻬﺬﺍ ﻗﺎﻝ ﺭﺏ . ﺍﻟﺠﻨﻮﺩ ﺍﻥ ﻛﻨﺖ ﻻ ﺍﻓﺘﺢ ﻟﻜﻢ ﻛﻮﻯ ﺍﻟﺴﻤﺎﻭﺍﺕ ﻭ ﺍﻓﻴﺾ ﻋﻠﻴﻜﻢ ﺑﺮﻛﺔ ﺣﺘﻰ ﻻ ﺗﻮﺳﻊ (10 : 3 )ﻣﻼ Bring all the tithes into the storehouse, That there may be food in My house, And try Me now in this, " Says the LORD of hosts, "If I will not open for you the windows of heaven And pour out for you [such] blessing That [there will] not [be room] enough [to receive it]. (Mala. 3: 10)

3 - Develop inner joy through service -3 ﺍﻟﺨﺪﻣﺔ ﺧﺎﺩﻣﻴﻦ ﺑﻨﻴﺔ ﺻﺎﻟﺤﺔ ﻛﻤﺎ ﻟﻠﺮﺏ ﻟﻴﺲ ﻟﻠﻨﺎﺱ. ﻋﺎﻟﻤﻴﻦ ﺍﻥ ﻣﻬﻤﺎ ﻋﻤﻞ ﻛﻞ ﻭﺍﺣﺪ ﻣﻦ (8 ،7 : 6 ﺍﻟﺨﻴﺮ ﻓﺬﻟﻚ ﻳﻨﺎﻟﻪ ﻣﻦ ﺍﻟﺮﺏ ﻋﺒﺪﺍ ﻛﺎﻥ ﺍﻡ ﺣﺮﺍ. )ﺃﻒ with goodwill doing service, as to the Lord, and not to men, . knowing that whatever good anyone does, he will receive the same from the Lord, whether [he is] a slave or free. (Eph. 6: 7 -8)

4 ﺍﺩﻋﻮ ﺍﻵﺨﺮﻳﻦ ﻟﻠﻤﺴﻴﺢ 4 - Sharing Christ with others. (10 : 15 ﻫﻜﺬﺍ ﺍﻗﻮﻝ ﻟﻜﻢ ﻳﻜﻮﻥ ﻓﺮﺡ ﻗﺪﺍﻡ ﻣﻼﺋﻜﺔ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﺑﺨﺎﻃﺊ ﻭﺍﺣﺪ ﻳﺘﻮﺏ. )ﻟﻮ "Likewise, I say to you, there is joy in the presence of the angels of God over one sinner who repents". (Lu. 15: 10) ﺗﺨﻴﻞ ﻓﻰ ﺍﻟﺴﻤﺎﺀ ﻟﻮ ﺟﺎﺀﻙ ﺃﺤﺪ ﻟﻜﻲ ﻳﺸﻜﺮﻙ ﻋﻠﻰ ﺇﻫﺘﻤﺎﻣﻚ ﻭﻷﻨﻚ ﻋﺮﻓﺘﻪ ﻋﻠﻰ ﺭﺑﻨﺎ ﻭﺇﻧﻪ ﺑﺴﺒﺒﻚ ﻭﺻﻞ ﻟﻠﺴﻤﺎ. . . ﺃﻲ ﻓﺮﺡ ﻟﻚ Imagine that when you go to heaven, someone would come to you and thank you for your care and for introducing God to him and for giving him the chance to reach heaven …. How happy would you be!! Brethren, my heart's desire and ﺍﻳﻬﺎ ﺍﻻﺧﻮﺓ ﺍﻥ ﻣﺴﺮﺓ ﻗﻠﺒﻲ prayer to God for Israel is that they ﻭﻃﻠﺒﺘﻲ ﺍﻟﻰ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﻻﺟﻞ may be saved. (Rom. 10: 1) ﺍﺳﺮﺍﺋﻴﻞ ﻫﻲ ﻟﻠﺨﻼﺹ. ) ﺭﻭ

. . ﺍﻟﻌﺎﻟﻢ ﻳﻌﻠﻤﻨﺎ ﺃﻦ ﺍﻟﻔﺮﺡ ﻟﻤﺎ The world teach us that joy is when …. ﺍﻟﻔﺮﺡ The Joy . . ﺗﻌﻴﺶ ﻟﻨﻔﺴﻚ ﻭﺗﻨﺴﻰ ﺍﻵﺨﺮﻳﻦ you live for yourself and forget about others …. ﺍﻟﻔﺮﺡ ﺍﻟﺤﻘﻴﻘﻲ ﻟﻤﺎ ﺗﺸﻜﺮ ، ﻭﺗﻌﻄﻲ، ﻭﺗﺨﺪﻡ، ﻭﺗﺠﻴﺐ ﺍﻟﻨﺎﺱ ﻟﺮﺑﻨﺎ Real Joy is when you thank, give, serve & get people to God